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Showing posts with label Theological thinking. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Theological thinking. Show all posts

Monday, June 5, 2017

Memorial reflections this weekend

This past weekend, I had the privilege of leading the memorial service for Longwood University's mega-reunion. During the tree planting service, I shared the following reflection:



Reflections – Roots that anchor
I love trees. The way they reach up to the heavens – like the original skyscrapers – towering above as a silent testament to the power of nature. Those giant trees, indeed the very ones around us, have seen the great passage of time. They were planted when we were but glimmers in our grandparents’ imaginations and will go on until our grandchildren walk these hallowed grounds. I’ve often sat in the shade of these behemoths and wondered what they have seen: proposals and breakups; intense happiness and profound loss; hope of a life ahead and the finality of a life lived. Trees have stories to tell if we would but listen for a while.

But trees don’t grow tall without also growing deep. Beneath each towering tree is a root system that anchors it to the earth. The roots draw nutrients from the soil and hold the tree upright to drink in the sunlight. The roots hold the tree fast during a strong storm. Indeed, the roots form the base from which the tree can grow to the towering heights and resplendent shade that we know and love.

And we too have roots that run deep, that anchor us to what we know. Our family, our friends, our community – these are what anchors us. When we are challenged, our roots help us to draw forth support. When the storms of life hit, our deepest roots help us to weather the wind and rain until the sun can shine again. Indeed, our roots in this place form a base from which we have been given the opportunity to grow to great heights ourselves.

Some trees use their roots differently than the ones we see around us. The mangrove trees of the tropical rainforest exist as an interconnected community. Their roots weave together so tightly that they can actually share resources from tree to tree. When an individual tree is in need of something, its neighbors respond by diverting these nutrients to the needy one’s roots. They support each other and so the entire community is strengthened. Don’t we, as Lancers, do this with one another? When a Lancer is hurting, don’t we rally around them to strengthen them for road ahead?

Still other communal tree populations are being studied by scientists. These scientists have discovered a rudimentary communication system in the roots of densely packed forests. When a bug or illness threatens a tree, it releases chemicals in its roots which other trees drink in. This prompts the neighboring trees to develop defenses against the intruder. When our community is threatened, don’t we do everything in our power to support the Lancers we know and love?

Trees are truly magical creations. Their roots draw up from the soil the things they need to survive. Their leaves act as little power plants giving the tree life and, as an added bonus, us fresh air. But there’s another part of the tree that I like less: the pollen. I don’t know about you but I have some pretty intense seasonal allergies. When the oaks start blooming, I start sneezing. Around here, as I’m sure you all will remember, the streets literally run with the catkins – the pollen producing part – from live oaks. If it was feasible, I’d pack up during the Spring and head somewhere that oaks couldn’t follow.

But pollen season is a reminder to me too. Although I love to sit in the shade of a towering tree, that’s not ultimately why that tree grows tall. It grows tall so that it can have better access to the sun so that it can do a better job of creating pollen. The pollen creates the next generation of tree. The tree is powered by its roots and leaves so it can spread its life all around.

Isn’t this what we’re supposed to be doing too? We’re fueled by our roots – by the people who have gone before us – and our leaves – the people who have empowered us – to spread out into the world. We are propelled by their support and nourishment so that we can make a difference to others.

Like I said, I love trees.

Tuesday, April 25, 2017

We are called to connect



*This post is the aforementioned assignment for the class I'm taking online.*

I was listening to a podcast recently called Bullseye with Jesse Thorn where the host was interviewing comedian Guy Branum. The guest, an openly gay man whose comedic work largely centers on issues in the LGBT community, was discussing his latest show, Talk Show The Game Show – a talk show in the format of a game show where guests receive points for doing “talk show” things. Branum offered an insight into his goal behind the show when he said, “Talk shows at their best are people having a real conversation with the utmost of themselves.” I would say that church is at its best when real people are having conversations and listening to God with the utmost of themselves.

After an incredibly polarizing election season that has only progressed into a contentious period in our collective, secular lives I feel that it is critical for communities to have places where people can come together to rise above the party politics and divisive rhetoric. Church should be that place. Indeed, it is the only place where all should be able to set aside their affiliations and join in worship of the Almighty. In his letter to the Romans, Paul didn’t write that only some had erred but rather that “…all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23). To take it further, neither republicans nor democrats, right nor left, conservative nor liberal have monopolies on the need for the free justification given by Jesus Christ (Romans 3:24).

A recent study by the Pew Research Center shows that even our religious lives are increasingly polarized as well. Types of churches have become de facto designations of ideology and affiliation with beliefs in secular society. Evangelical Protestants are distinguished from Mainline Protestants who are, in turn, distinguished from Catholics. But Jesus did not call us to group up in these ways according to ideology or belief. Instead, he called us to “love your neighbor as yourself” (Mark 12:31). Paul also got in on the act of calling for ignoring these divisions in that same Romans passage mentioned above when he rejected his equivalent group designations, “There is no difference between Jew and Gentile…” (Romans 3:22b).

Churches often agree with these statements in principle but don’t necessarily live them out. The same Pew Research Center study found a striking disparity between race and ethnic composition in various sects of religious groups. It should come as no surprise that there is a diverging between black and white Christians into historically Black protestant denominations and Mainline Protestant ones given the relatively recent (and some would say on-going) racial oppression in this country. As Cone said, “African slaves found white churches socially unacceptable as places of worship. Therefore they created their own church structures that would more accurately represent their affirmations of faith in their struggle for freedom.” (Cone 533) That being said though, will our issues around race in this country really be solved without inviting brothers and sisters from different backgrounds to join with us in relationship, friendship, and community? Can the church really call for reconciliation without affecting this reconciliation in our own sanctuaries?

I believe that this sort of reconciliation across boundaries in the Church will not occur thanks to deep-thinking theologians. Rather, much as Cone identified regarding white theologians’ response to black theology (535), theologians beholden to denominational polity are likely to ignore conflicting views. It is the armchair theologians sitting in the pews who need to engage with people of all backgrounds so as to more accurately understand the fullness of the image of God.

McNeil advocates that our engagement should emulate Jesus who made an intentional effort to “reach across the human boundaries of culture, class, ethnicity, religion and gender” (56). It is not enough that we would “ask them to come to us” (McNeil 52) or to “plan special evangelistic events and invite them” (McNeil 52) as churches so often do. Instead, we as Christians must “leave our comfort zone and intentionally go to places where we will meet people who are different from us” (McNeil 52). Indeed, John Wesley himself preached early on in the Methodist movement about the need for all to experience the grace of God regardless of where we might encounter them (Logan 29).
I’m reminded of a hymn, “For the healing of the nations,” that has always struck a chord with me. Most of the hymn discusses overcoming all of the issues that humans encounter when we group together into various factions. The hymnist Fred Kaan calls on us to battle against war and famine and status in favor of peace, hope and goodness. It is the last stanza though that convicts me:

“You, Creator God, have written
your great name on humankind;
for our growing in your likeness
bring the life of Christ to mind;
that by our response and service
earth its destiny may find.”

While the world continues to polarize and become more tribal day after day – spurred on by fake news, alternative facts, and threats of violence on a global scale – the grace of God still calls all to God’s fold. A Christian community should be the place where brother can sit with brother, sister with sister, transwoman with coal miner, California democrat with Kansas republican, and all agree on one thing, “Christ is risen indeed.”

Want to learn more from the media, studies, and theologians I referenced? Here’s a rundown:
Thorn, Jesse (Producer). April 10, 2017. Bullseye with Jesse Thorn – Guy Branum [Audio Podcast] http://www.npr.org/podcasts/510309/bullseye

Religious Landscape Study. Pew Research Center, Accessed: April 24, 2017. http://www.pewforum.org/religious-landscape-study/

Cone, James H. (1979). Evangelization and Politics: A Black Perspective in Wilmore, Gayraud S. (Ed.), Cone, James H. (Ed.), Black Theology: A Documentary History, 1966-1979 (pp.531-551). Maryknoll, New York: Orbis Books

McNeil, Brenda Salter (2008). A Credible Witness: Reflections on Power, Evangelism and Race. Downer’s Grove, Illinois: IVP Books

Logan, James (1989). How Great a Flame! Contemporary Lessons from The Wesleyan Revival. Nashville, Tennessee: Discipleship Resources

Kaan, Frank (1989). For the healing of the nations in The United Methodist hymnal : book of United Methodist Worship. Nashville, Tennessee: United Methodist Pub. House

Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Lenten Thoughts



Friends,
I am honored to have been asked by my colleague, Jason Stanley, to write a guest post for his blog as we journey through Lent!  I invite you to check it out here: http://jasoncstanley.com/guest-post-im-sorry-how-can-i-help/ and take a look at the other Lenten posts on his blog as you reflect and journey through this Lenten season.
Peace,
Lyndsie

Friday, December 12, 2014

He was ours

This past week at a church meeting, we began discussing ways to connect with some of the younger folks all around us. One member said that she had participated in a program in the church where kids were paired with adults and "adopted" by them. It became a relationship of nurturing and care between generations of people in the church. This woman said that she had sat her child down and explained that, like it or not, he was hers now.

Let me be clear, no actual legal adoptions were occurring. Rather, this woman had decided to enter into a relationship with this young person in a way that made it clear that they were forevermore inextricably linked to one another. In fact, it's called a covenant. They declared to one another that due to this relationship, you matter to me and always will.

Two days later, I found out that a beloved senior student at my university passed away very suddenly. This was a student with whom I felt the same connection to as discussed in our church meeting. It turns out, I didn't realize I felt that way until I heard of his passing.

I was the supervisor of his residence hall his first year at school. I taught his freshman seminar course. I, quite literally, saw him on his first day of college.

When others thought he was too different, he confided in me and we brainstormed ways to relate to his peers.

When he felt homesick and couldn't process the emotions associated with that, he talked to me. Granted, it was about the perfectly arranged collectables on his windowsill but, at the same time, it wasn't about that at all.

I watched as this scared young man became a vital part of the University's community. I watched, and silently cheered, as he took on challenge after challenge and far surpassed them. I watched as slowly, almost imperceptibly,  he changed from "that guy" to "our guy."

The community adopted him and he adopted us too. He connected with many of us and made it a point to speak to us frequently. He made us laugh and he made us frustrated. He pushed our thinking and he pushed our buttons. He lived an inquisitive and energetic life diving right into anything put in front of him. He danced and sang even though he didn't have any great skill in either. He joked and laughed even though it wasn't always appropriate. He learned and grew even when others said he couldn't.

He was ours.

Sunday, October 19, 2014

A real life hostage situation

A little while back we posted about a "hostage situation" happening in our house thanks to sleep deprivation brought on by the transition to the toddler bed. Today, our family experienced a real life hostage situation. The short version of the story is our dog was lost, she is back now, and we have been happily loving on her all evening. Read on for the longer version of the events, and the hostage portion.

Monday, September 15, 2014

"Does this mean we don't get to have breakfast?"

This past Sunday, we had a "mission moment" during our worship service. This was an opportunity for a pre-chosen member of the congregation to get up and talk about the mission in the church that has affected them. This month's mission focus is the Farmville Area Community Emergency Services (FACES) backpack program.

Sunday, August 3, 2014

"Do all the good you can..."

I teach the Youth Sunday School at our church and have had the summer off from lesson planning in favor of some hands-on mission work. Today is my first Sunday back in full out teaching mode and I'm pretty excited for the topic this week: the relationship between faith and works.


Thursday, July 24, 2014

Summertime Harvest

The abundance of fresh local vegetables and fruits is one of my very favorite things about summer!  We try to eat local as much as we can here in the Blakely household.  I've already told you about the Local Roots Co-op we are a part of, which is one way we support and eat local.  We also have a very small garden at our new house containing strawberry, tomato, squash and basil plants.  But since we only moved a couple months ago, we didn't have time to really cultivate a large garden this season.  Our focus was on unpacking and getting the house set.  I hope to plant more this fall, though, and use our harvest in our weekly menu plans.

Friday, May 16, 2014

It was the best of times, it was the worst of times


I feel certain that Dickens was not talking about the Blakely family when he wrote "A Tale of Two Cities back in 1895. That being said, the famous commentary on the times seems no less applicable to us these days. The last 8 months have been pretty rough. First, my step-grandfather (Mom's step-father) passed away. Then my grandfather (Dad's father) passed. And now, my grandmother (Mom's mother) has passed away as well. At some point in my life I have known five grandparents and been blessed by that experience. Now, I have one living still. Needless to say, it's been an emotional couple of months for all of us.

Monday, March 24, 2014

My family of choice

You may not know this about me, but I'm an avid Buzzfeed reader. Some of the stories are wacky and not really "up my alley" but then some are very thought-provoking. Some, well some are just plain hilarious and make me laugh uncontrollably. Some of the posts are just plain wrong and I'll let you stumble upon them if you dare.

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

Life is messy

The saying goes, life is messy but better than the alternative.

I've recently had the occasion to experience the death of another grandparent. This is the third grandfather to pass in my life. While I don't remember my mom's father all that well, my (step)grandfather Jack and my granddaddy Blakely have been an active part of my life for as long as I can remember. Jack's passing made me reflect on how tangible items can prompt jogs down memory lane; how having a physical "touch stone" can reconnect us with our past.

Thursday, November 14, 2013

Thanks, it was my grandfather's

Many of you know that my [step]grandfather, my mother's step-father, passed away a couple of weeks ago. I appreciate all of the heartfelt sympathies from friends, family and church members over the last few months. To answer the question I've gotten countless times, I'm doing alright.

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Lions, and chicks, and games...oh my

             As you all know, this is a blog about our adventures on the way to parenthood. Occasionally, we go a bit off-topic to talk about some things that seem relevant or poignant at the time. Well, strap in folks…here we go again.

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Our Big Weekend & More

Last weekend was a big weekend for our soon to be family of three!  On Friday June 22nd I headed over to Roanoke for the 2012 Virginia Annual Conference of The United Methodist Church.  On Saturday, a bunch of family arrived in Roanoke as well.  We met up for dinner at a delicious restaurant before heading over to the Roanoke Civic Center for the "Service for the Ordering of Ministry."  This is the worship service where I was commissioned as a provisional Deacon in The United Methodist Church and officially became Reverend Lyndsie Nicole Kidd Blakely!!  Josh and Sylvia (my pastor) arrived just in time for the service after being at a wedding back in Farmville earlier that evening.  It was so wonderful to be able to celebrate with friends and family.  I'm so blessed to have a family that supports me in my calling to ministry!  Thank you to all who were able to be present with me at the service and for all those who have prayed for me throughout this journey.  It means so much to have your support!  And thankfully, my alb still fit over my BB bump...it's getting pretty tight though!

Thursday, June 21, 2012

We're having a...cat?

I promise everyone that this post will, eventually, be about our impending bundle of joy. Now that the disclaimer is out of the way, on to the good stuff.

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

"How is it with your soul?"




Early on in the pregnancy process, the Mrs. and I were so excited to be pregnant but were unable to share it with anyone. We had decided to not share with others that we were pregnant until closer to the 12th week in an attempt to get out of the high-risk time. All of our nervous excitement had to go somewhere, though, so we found ourselves sneaking into a bookstore to buy a book about our new condition. Since Lynds and I are both something of bibliophiles, we decided to limit ourselves and only buy one book to read each. Lyndsie, of course, settled on the classic, “What To Expect When You’re Expecting.” I went for a less conventional choice with, “Dude, You’re Gonna Be A Dad!”

With section titles like, “I saw the sign and it opened up her cervix”, it took me less than a week to read it cover to cover. Somewhere in there, and the direct quote escapes me, the author, John Pfeiffer, talks about fathers-to-be coming to terms with their own mortality. It seems the impending arrival of the next generation has a tendency to make fathers think about the fact that they are getting older themselves. Add onto this the fact that I’ve inadvertently picked up three or four fiction books recently that deal with the theme of death and I’ve been in for some serious introspection.

Thursday, March 1, 2012

The Rev!

Wow!  Yesterday around 4pm, I got a call from my "shepherd" with the Board of Ordained Ministry that I am being recommended by the board to be commissioned!  I got to celebrate with dinner at El Patron with Jen R., Patti, Dave, Matt and Brittney while also celebrating Brittney passing her exams and becoming a Registered Nurse!  After handbell practice and choir practice, Josh and I celebrated with dessert at Sweet Frog since he had his staff meeting during dinner!

For those of you who don't know The United Methodist Church's ordination process....it is long and grueling.  And while the BOOM (board of ordained ministry) works every year to tweak the process in hopes of making it more of a supportive and pastoral process, it still remains daunting simply because of what it is.  If you stay right on track with everything, it is a 7 year process to full ordination.  Since I switched from the North Carolina Conference to the Virginia Conference, I am about a year or two behind in the process.  Ultimately, that is okay for me, because I am on the deacon track which requires me to find my own job position rather than those on the elder track who are appointed to a church once they are commissioned.  So, after writing four huge papers, creating a DVD of myself proclaiming the word in various ministry settings, filling out various other forms and applications, then surviving four interviews which were forty-five minutes each with fifteen minute breaks in between on Monday, I got my call yesterday with the official word.  On June 23rd at Annual Conference in Roanoke, VA I will be commissioned as a provisional Deacon in The United Methodist Church.  And while I will not be able to wear a stole yet and will not be fully ordained (another 3 years of papers and interviews until that step), I will officially be The Reverend Lyndsie Nicole Kidd Blakely!  BB will be large and in charge up there on stage with me.  Let's just hope my alb fits over my baby bump!