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This blog began as an attempt to keep our family and friends included in the adventures of little Baby Blakely until he made his appearance in the world. Now, this has become a gathering place for all of our various adventures as we continue to enjoy time as a growing family.

Monday, June 5, 2017

Memorial reflections this weekend

This past weekend, I had the privilege of leading the memorial service for Longwood University's mega-reunion. During the tree planting service, I shared the following reflection:



Reflections – Roots that anchor
I love trees. The way they reach up to the heavens – like the original skyscrapers – towering above as a silent testament to the power of nature. Those giant trees, indeed the very ones around us, have seen the great passage of time. They were planted when we were but glimmers in our grandparents’ imaginations and will go on until our grandchildren walk these hallowed grounds. I’ve often sat in the shade of these behemoths and wondered what they have seen: proposals and breakups; intense happiness and profound loss; hope of a life ahead and the finality of a life lived. Trees have stories to tell if we would but listen for a while.

But trees don’t grow tall without also growing deep. Beneath each towering tree is a root system that anchors it to the earth. The roots draw nutrients from the soil and hold the tree upright to drink in the sunlight. The roots hold the tree fast during a strong storm. Indeed, the roots form the base from which the tree can grow to the towering heights and resplendent shade that we know and love.

And we too have roots that run deep, that anchor us to what we know. Our family, our friends, our community – these are what anchors us. When we are challenged, our roots help us to draw forth support. When the storms of life hit, our deepest roots help us to weather the wind and rain until the sun can shine again. Indeed, our roots in this place form a base from which we have been given the opportunity to grow to great heights ourselves.

Some trees use their roots differently than the ones we see around us. The mangrove trees of the tropical rainforest exist as an interconnected community. Their roots weave together so tightly that they can actually share resources from tree to tree. When an individual tree is in need of something, its neighbors respond by diverting these nutrients to the needy one’s roots. They support each other and so the entire community is strengthened. Don’t we, as Lancers, do this with one another? When a Lancer is hurting, don’t we rally around them to strengthen them for road ahead?

Still other communal tree populations are being studied by scientists. These scientists have discovered a rudimentary communication system in the roots of densely packed forests. When a bug or illness threatens a tree, it releases chemicals in its roots which other trees drink in. This prompts the neighboring trees to develop defenses against the intruder. When our community is threatened, don’t we do everything in our power to support the Lancers we know and love?

Trees are truly magical creations. Their roots draw up from the soil the things they need to survive. Their leaves act as little power plants giving the tree life and, as an added bonus, us fresh air. But there’s another part of the tree that I like less: the pollen. I don’t know about you but I have some pretty intense seasonal allergies. When the oaks start blooming, I start sneezing. Around here, as I’m sure you all will remember, the streets literally run with the catkins – the pollen producing part – from live oaks. If it was feasible, I’d pack up during the Spring and head somewhere that oaks couldn’t follow.

But pollen season is a reminder to me too. Although I love to sit in the shade of a towering tree, that’s not ultimately why that tree grows tall. It grows tall so that it can have better access to the sun so that it can do a better job of creating pollen. The pollen creates the next generation of tree. The tree is powered by its roots and leaves so it can spread its life all around.

Isn’t this what we’re supposed to be doing too? We’re fueled by our roots – by the people who have gone before us – and our leaves – the people who have empowered us – to spread out into the world. We are propelled by their support and nourishment so that we can make a difference to others.

Like I said, I love trees.